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Anilingus. Yes, It Is What You Think It Is

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Butt action is more commonplace now than it has ever been (thanks to the millennials).

Credit: Mid-Day

Regardless of sexual orientation, it is now expected that the anus is a go-to zone when it comes to intimacy.

I’m still not a fan of anal sex (uncomfortably painful!). But Anilingus is oral sex for the bum hole. And I think that this can actually be quite amazing. If you’ve never had anything up your butt or fiddled with your significant other’s taint… perhaps this is something you want to add to your bedroom repertoire? Here are some tips to get over the anxiety and make the first time you give and receive anilingus an enjoyable experience.

 

Cleanliness

This is the most important to me. The state of your butts will either make or break the experience. Have a shower and do it well. Trust me, no one wants to see dingleberries (I think the millennials refer to this as Booty Flakes. *vomit*) or tiny rolls of toilet paper residue stuck to your butthole just as they’re about to stick their tongue up there. If you have butt hair, tweeze or wax them off.

 

Doggy Style

Doggy is the best position for receiving anilingus. This is because the butt cheeks are easily spread out and the anus is in clear view and is accessible. If you prefer to lie on your back then prop your bum up with a pillow or two. Or grab your legs around your knees and bring them up to your chest. Just don’t lie flat on the bed (like when receiving cunnilingus) because it is nearly impossible to reach your anus without burrowing some kind of impossible hole in the mattress.

 

Start Easy

No one expects that your dive right in and starts drilling his butthole with your tongue. You can start by kissing or touching the area around his anus. If you feel comfortable, then move on to circling your tongue around his taint and then licking up and down his butt crack.

 

Body Language

You can use your tongue, your fingers, your lips, your teeth. You can penetrate or not. You can swirl your tongue around or use it in a thrusting motion. If you’re unsure about what you are doing, take your cues from his body language and the noises he makes. Maybe he prefers it when you suck gently on his taint or perhaps he enjoys it more when you stick a finger up there.