Readers have been asking if there is such a thing as the Male G Spot. And if it does exist, then where is it? And what the hell do you do with it? So today, I'm going to give you my take on the Male G-spot and I have a special male guest (who wishes to be anonymous) who will enlighten us on this topic from a man's point of view as well.
Holly Jean: Yes, I do believe there is a Male G-spot and applying the right pressure there at the right point can intensify his orgasm. I don't think that stimulating the G-spot on it's own will derive any sort of orgasm, since the G-spot is not on his penis itself.
Where is the Male G-Spot?
The G-spot is his brain!
HA... no. Just kidding!
Seriously, there is this area inside his anus. Not deep in... but just about a finger tip in. It will feel like a small lump of flesh. Now ladies, before you go looking for his G-spot, do trim your claws, and do use some lubricant (especially if it is his first time... awww... a bum virgin). Give him some notice before you stick your finger in there, don't just shock him.
Please don't verbally say- "Can I stick my finger in your bum?" (What a mood killer!). Just gently brush your finger on the outside of his anus first a few times. Gentle rub on it without penetrating. Repeat this a few times, increasing the pressure slightly each time. When you sense he is comfortable enough, begin pushing your finger through. Keep it slow and gentle.
You can tell if he is enjoying the sensation by the sounds he makes, or the fact that he hasn't pushed your hand away yet.
Great, you have access to his G-spot. Now What?
If you're a contortionist, you can stimulate his G-spot while having sex. But I find that the best way to use the Male G-Spot is while performing Fellatio. Half way through a blowjob, you should start stimulating his G-spot by gently wiggling your finger in there. You can increase the speed of the stimulation as he is about to orgasm. This will make his orgasm explosive.
Mystery Male: I think the G-spot you are referring to is actually the male prostate, and yes, stimulation there can result in very intense orgasms.
I think most straight males, like myself, tend to be wary of anything being put into our anus. So you need to be gentle, and slow with it. Shocking us by jabbing your finger in suddenly is not a good idea unless you want us to kick you in the groin. A purely reflex action, of course.
Before you try to stick a finger in to hit that G-spot, I suggest rimming. Rimming is when you use your tongue to lick around the anus, and probing it in a little. Have a shower with your partner first so he won't be disgusting.
One of a guy's fantasy is bending over a table or back of a sofa, at a 90degree angle, and having his girl kneel down on the floor in front of him. Then she performs oral sex on him while stimulating his prostate (G-spot?). Of course, we would never tell you this personally because it does sound quite homosexual or perverse. If you want to surprise your partner this Christmas, with a very special orgasm, I think you should suggest trying this on him.
(I hope my girlfriend is a reader of this site).
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Holly Jean Aroozoo is our Contributing Love & Sex Editor. She is a very popular blogger who was one of the top 10 finalists in the Singapore Blog Awards, Best Lifestyle Blog category and contestant on S Factor in 2009. Holly is the Ambassador for Ettusais, ClubCouture.cc and Sony's make.believe campaign. |
