On again… off again… this is how some relationships roll. It’s tumultuous. It’s volatile. It can even be exciting. Some couples just do not seem to know if they are meant for one another or not. This often leads them to break up, and then get back together after some time. Is this healthy? Is it recommended? Let us go over some pros and cons of getting back together after a break-up.
You already know the person – having been together already, you know him quite well. This saves you time from having to go through this phase again.
It might be easier to get comfortable with each other again.
He may have agreed that he needed to change for the better, and he actually did his best to do so for you.
When you broke up you went through a period of evaluation. Both of you had time to think things over and to miss each other. So now you are both more willing to make it work.
Chances are it could be even better than it was before.
When you broke up with him there was one or more reasons. So chances are you are not going to forget this, and this will lead you to be somewhat hesitant to get used to him again.
After you broke up, he may have slept with someone else. You will need to accept this.
You are never going to start anew. It is difficult to get back those beautiful initial feelings because there is always that something that hurts you.
There is always that chance that if he did it once, he is going to do it again. So the probability of his hurting you is always going to be there.
It is rare in life to get a second chance. So if you are going to give him that chance, or vice versa, let us hope it will work for the best!
My momma always said a leopard never changes its spots. So if it didn’t work the first time, then you’re a fool to do it all over again. But then again, when it comes to love, how can you let go, without knowing for sure it’s over. Good luck deciding.