Shopping won’t Curl your Toes… like these sex tips can. Here are the top 10 sex tips for the best female orgasms:
Don’t let your man race through foreplay. If he is rushing to get your clothes off and his member in you, stop him. Don’t allow him to touch you, and undress yourself slowly instead. Not only will this drive him wild, but teaching him to slow things down will make you end up with a better orgasm. Your brain takes a bit of time to prepare your body for sex.
Don’t stick to one position. Variety is the spice of sex. Don’t be afraid to try things and tell him what you want in the moment: more or less, faster or slower, softer or harder. Women aren’t always comfortable telling men what they want, but trust me when I say – most men love being told what to do so he can please her in bed.
Adult films are for entertainment purposes only. They’re not a very good teacher. In most mainstream porn, it’s like, woman enters room, kiss, clothes off, they’re doing it. Men pick up some of the most useless moves from porn flicks. For instance, that tongue-flicking thing they do…. give me a break!! Generally, women want anything done with his tongue to be long and slow.
If he is going on and on, and you are starting to get sore down there, stop him. You can always move back to foreplay and start stroking him with your hands. Yes, you do want things to go on a while, but chafing isn’t sexy. And just because you start something doesn’t mean you can’t stop and go back to it. Don’t be concerned that he will lose his erection, because he will get it back.
Do it the dark or cover your face with a pillow. A lot of women cannot get a full orgasm because they are too conscious of how they look. In order to let go of yourself completely, it helps when you cannot see him and you know he cannot see your face.
If you are secure with your body, having sex in front of a mirror or two can be very exciting for both of you. If you don’t have a large mirror that’s aimed at your bed, you can buy an inexpensive full-length mirror, prop it up against a wall. This can be much sexier than videotaping. With mirrors, you can change positions and angles if what you see is not turning you on–it’s easy to move around to find an attractive view.
Usually, the female-dominant positions will make you climax faster. They also make it easier for him to use his hands, touching all the places that aren’t as accessible when you’re on the bottom. If she’s a breast woman, get him to stimulate them while you’re riding him.
If you are on the bottom but you want your vagina to be tighter and for his penis to feel twice as wide, put your legs straight up in the air. Want him to go deeper? Try positions where you pull your knees back towards your chest.
And no I don’t mean whipping. I never associate pain or abuse with sexual pleasure. But binding your arms to the bed posts, and blindfolding yourself can make sex take a whole new dimension. It’s the feeling of vulnerability and submission that can make the sexual experience more intense.
Women tend to have a hard time expressing their sexual fantasies, yet fantasy is an important aspect in escalating the intensity of your orgasm. If you don’t have any fantasies, you can start by reading an erotic novel or erotica online. When you are in the zone of fantasy, everything becomes a part of foreplay.