Be familiar with his member.
Look at his penis, touch it, taste it, lick it. Find out what the most sensitive parts of his penis are. For most men the most sensitive parts are the head of the penis which is extremely rich in nerve endings and the frenulum which is the elastic band of skin below the head of the penis. Be gentle with the more sensitive areas as over-stimulation can mean he will experience orgasm too soon, or it can cause discomfort from over-sensitivity.
Moan like a porn star.
Not because it’s dramatic, but for the simple reason that moaning creates vibrations. Take one testicle into your mouth and moan, then repeat with the other one. Or you can moan periodically while you have his whole shaft in your mouth. The vibration effect will feel great and it sounds sexy too.
Look like you enjoy it.
No point moaning and sounding like a porn star but the expression on your face looks disgusted. Yes… I admit giving a BJ is not exactly the same as eating your favourite rich ice cream… but you got to make it look like it is. Get it?
(And by the way, it’s not gross… did you know it’s actually cleaner than putting your own fingers in your mouth? Your own fingers carry more germs than a normal clean penis!)
Watch his reactions.
There are two reasons for this. The practical reason is that you can figure out what he likes or does not like based on the expression on his face as you are doing it. The second reason is, it’s just god damn sexy! Maintain eye contact occasionally as your lips glide up and down his shaft, and then close your eyes dreamily and lose yourself in the pleasure of sucking. Make sure that your teeth are not in contact with his penis at any point as it may cause pain, unless he likes it that way.
Use your hands.
While his erection is in your mouth, stimulate him further with your hands by caressing his thighs, or his scotum, pinch his nipples or stimulate the area around his anus with your finger. If you’re a lucky girl and he is too big to fit fully into your mouth, use your hand to grab around the exposed part of the shaft.
Use your tongue.
While executing a mind blowing blow job, move your mouth up towards the head of the penis, and locate the frenulum. Flick this with the hard tip of your tongue, or make fast butterfly-like flutter movements across it with your tongue tip. This is an especially good move when he’s about to reach orgasm.
Deep throat him.
The key to deep throat is to relax. It is easier to avoid gagging if you approach it from more of a 69 position with you facing his feet. This angle will be a lot easier on your throat. Remember to hold the base of his penis to control the depth of penetration as you’re not really a porn star and will probably choke unsexily if he gets carried away and thrusts to hard.
For starters, I recommend a ‘single pass’, this is where you’re performing a regular blow job but periodically take all of him in for just one thrust and then go back to the regular depth blowjob. This is surprisingly sexy and stimulating for him.
Take his cum sexily.
If you swallow, it will feel great for him because there’s no interruption. It also boosts a man’s ego and men like having a bad girl in the bedroom. If you really don’t want to swallow, just keep it in your mouth until you get to the bathroom afterwards. Alternatively, you can tell him to cum on your face. tilt your head back, close your eyes, and if you feel some of it land on the side of your lips, lick it off seductively. This will be a blowjob he won’t soon forget!
