He Wants a Threesome

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and are happy.

He really wants a threesome and he’s been constantly asking me for it. After pondering about the idea, I think I want to give in to it for him. We decided it should be another girl.

He said that since it’s a girl, I should sort it out.  He said if we had decided on another man, he would have sorted it out.

Can you give me any advice?

Thanks

Cindy

Dear Cindy,

All guys have fantasies and this seem to be the more  popular one of all. It’s nice that you want to do this for him.

However, I do feel that you’ve not given this decision enough thought.

Firstly, I think he’s being very selfish. How did you come to the decision that it should be another girl who is part of the threesome? Do you really want to share your intimacy with your boyfriend, with another woman? Would he still want it if you wanted another guy in the mix instead?!

I am positive that you DO NOT want to see your partner make love to another woman!

I could see how someone would want to do it out of curiosity if they were just dating casually, and not in a serious relationship. But once there is love and seriousness, this isn’t something that is going to benefit your relationship; it will just tear it down. If your man thinks him getting intimate with another girl is more important than your relationship, maybe you should re-evaluate his worthiness of your love.

If you really do want to agree to it, then make sure it’s you and him and another guy first, before agreeing to you and him and another girl. I think it’s only fair to the both of you. (I have a hunch though, he’s not going to want another man as a rival, and won’t agree to it).