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My boyfriend is cheating on me... with Porn

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Dear Holly Jean

I enjoy watching porn and have been watching it ever since I was 15 (I am now 30). My girlfriend has issues with it and we have fought over this many times.

I have to watch it in secret now.

I honestly don’t think watching porn is cheating or bad for our relationship and I hate that she is trying to control me.

Just a Guy

 

Dear Just a Guy,

Many men (and women) look at porn on the internet. Porn can be a good stimulant in a relationship. However, just as many people think that porn is not right; it is also offensive and disrespectful. Would you feel confident and comfortable if your girlfriend made it a habit to enjoy watching videos of naked men in action?

Secrecy is bad for relationships! You have to watch it in secret otherwise your girlfriend gets upset (by the way, you can never hide stuff from women for long… we always find out in the end) Ask yourself... is it worth it?

If your answer is Yes, then just carry on as you are, until she has had enough and dumps you.

If your answer is No, then drop this altogether and get a healthier hobby.

Watching porn may not be a crime, but it is obviously affecting your relationship. I am not asking you to forsake your Ego and obey your girlfriend. Just think about it and do what you truly feel is right and remember that all decisions has its rewards and repercussions.

Holly Jean

 

 

Holly Jean Aroozoo is our Contributing Love & Sex Editor. She is a very popular blogger who was one of the top 10 finalists in the Singapore Blog Awards, Best Lifestyle Blog category and contestant on S Factor in 2009.

Part of the FHM top 100 Girls Next Door in 2008, she is impulsive, adventurous and enjoys travel, new clothes, unhealthy food and men. She adores all things pink
and is a freelance writer who focuses on lifestyle topics. 

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