Dealing with Fxxkstration


If you’re agitated by a lack of a sexual outlet, you’re fxxkstrated.


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Many people deal with sexual frustration at some point in their lives. Maybe it’s a dry spell because you’re caught up with work all the time, or you’ve been single a long time and don’t want to engage in one night stands or paid sex. Here are some things you can do to fulfil your sex drive.


1. Solo Sex

If you haven’t been doing this already, OMG, what are you waiting for? Self-pleasure is safe, enjoyable, it costs nothing and best of all, it gets you in tune with your body so you know how to achieve orgasm within no time at all. The easiest way to masturbate is with a good bullet vibrator, or you can use your fingers.


2. Experiment

Once you’ve got the hang of solo sex, change things up a bit to keep it interesting and possibly even more enjoyable. Try a butt plug or a new sex toy. Experiment with new positions and techniques. Perhaps try the technique called edging where you bring yourself to the edge of an orgasm and pull back, only to quickly start building it up again. Doing this several times in a session will bring on a more intense orgasm.


3. Porn

Yes, a lot of sexual pleasure comes from our brains itself, but sometimes it doesn’t hurt to help the process along with some porn. These are readily available online, and in the safe confines of your home. Check out different types of porn, it may be voyeurism, or amateur porn or just pictures of naked people that turn you on, or it may take more hardcore stuff like bondage or Gokkun and that’s ok too. You don’t have to justify it to anyone but yourself.


4. Fuck Buddy

Having a fuck buddy isn’t considered casual sex the same way one would hook up or have one night stands. This is someone you know, you connect with and are comfortable with. You can both agree to only have intercourse with each other and this arrangement stands until one of you wants out of this exclusivity (usually when one of you is no longer single). 


Remember, sexual frustration is totally normal but you don’t have to put up with it like it’s a bad phase of our life. No point going through life being fxxkstrated when you can easily fix it with the options mentioned above.